I like women. I like the shape and curves of the female body. I like boobs, I like asses, I like pretty vaginas. I also appreciate and am aroused by a nice cock. I’m however not otherwise attracted to the male body. I like femboys as long as they have a feminine-like shape and curves, as many of them do.

WTF is my sexual orientation?

  • LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 months ago

    Humans aren’t attracted only to genitalia since that shit is hard to see from afar, evolutionarily it makes sense we’d find secondary sexual characteristics attractive also, overall body shapes, hair, skin etc.

    So you don’t like penises per se, you like penises when attached to otherwise people who tick those feminine boxes you care about whether they be trans or just crossdressers.

    That’s actually really common I find because almost every single man I dated gave that same take, they all considered themselves straight and were never with a trans woman before me.

    I’d say you’re pretty much just straight with a specific penis fetish, even bi people IRL generally date people who are all the way masc and all the way fem.

    Not to gatekeep being bi though if that’s what you feel more comfortable with - go for it.

    Otherwise just love who you love and move on with it.

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      I would argue I can be romantically attracted to people but sexually I want specific things, and they don’t necessarily overlap.

      Romantic boob fondling is nice, but I don’t need them for sexual attraction. Penises are sexually nice but I’m not romantically attracted to them. That’s to say, I’m explicitly sexually attracted to penises.

      Luckily, I find multiple things romantically and sexually attractive, not just boobs and penises (which would really limit my options).

      I am not always romantically and sexually attracted to the same person. Some people I’m only sexually attracted to and some people I’m only romantically attracted to.