I don’t know about hyprocritical, but it is rather selfish. Valuing human lives at zero just because you haven’t met them is quite extreme if you think about it. I don’t see how it is utilitarian either. Saving even 2 people at the cost of 1 is the most utilitarian thing to do.
Sounds good to me. I’ll have friends and family watch from the outside so I’ll be confident it isn’t some kind of ruse.