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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • So there’s going to be several things compounding here. One is loneliness. Another might be equating chastity with morality. And there’s expecting adolescent boys to not be gross horny idiots.

    Find a community IRL or online that’s into what you like or take up a hobby that puts you into a group regularly. No loner things, you can do those anytime. Something away from school and separate from your sister would be good. I had luck with martial arts when I got to college, but it can be tough when you’re young to get to a physical place if you don’t have reliable transportation.

    People saying awful things doesn’t go away with age, but it can be a good indicator of who you don’t want to be around. And if they’re the kind of people you can’t respect, then you don’t have to respect their opinions either. I’ve also always gotten along better with women; hanging out with them more may or may not cut down on the amount of conversations you find abhorrent.

    If you’re having a lot of trouble with your emotions regarding this sort of thing, you may want to speak with a therapist. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, they just tend to be able to put the right tools in the hands of people that need them.

    I hope that helps. That’s a rough age to be, but it can probably be better than how it is for you. And I hope it becomes so.