• thermal_shock@lemmy.world
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    7 hours ago

    My fiance has the same name AND same birthdate as her mom. Has really fucked her up, we had like 10 extra calls essentially calling her the wrong person and asking about her property when we were buying our home.

    We get her fucking mail all the time. Like literally same name and dob make life pretty fucking annoying, just pure stupid.

  • CetaceanNeeded@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    My mother has the same first name as her mother. I don’t at all understand why, she has always just been called by her second name.

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    2 days ago

    I know someone who has the same name as her mother, and her grandmother. They all lived in the same household. Imagine, you call her name and all three of them listen.

    I never understood this practice in general, regardless of gender. There are so many possibilities, sure it takes some creativity, but it’s not that hard, come on.

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    2 days ago

    My mother, grandmother and great grandmother all have same name, but used different short forms to differentiate.

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    3 days ago

    Tell me you don’t live in a Hispanic Country without telling me you don’t live in a Hispanic Country.

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    My wife’s g-grandmother was Mary. Her daughters were Mary Margaret, Mary Agnes, Mary Elizabeth, and Mary Alice. Newfies.

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    2 days ago

    I agree with all the sentiments in this thread about giving a kid their own identity and would never name my kid with my name even tho it could go to either sex depending on spelling. However the exception I would have to this sentiment is when someone names their kid after a deceased loved one. Usually would be the soon to be born kid’s grandparent or great grandparents. So like if someone is best friends with their dad and their dad passes before their grandchild is born the person will name their kid after their late father. I dont think I know any specific person who did this with the first name, but I have seen it a ton with a person’s middle name. I think its sweet and is a nice story to tell a child.

  • CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Good. Let kids have their own identity. I’ve always cringed at the Ebeneezer Gortlegump IV’s of the world.

    What I have seen is it is much more common to have the firstborn daughter have a middle name of an ancestor, often grandmother.

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      Can confirm myself, my mother, and my maternal grandmother all have the same middle name. Call it a southern thing I suppose. I killed the tradition by being childess and my younger sister refused to pass it to my niece.