• IndiBrony@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      That’s still on the parents. My little lad is 15 and never had his own phone until his tweens. Amusingly, he was older than me when I got my first phone back in the 90s.

      He never got bullied for not having a phone.

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        9 months ago

        He may not have been bullied, but he may have missed out on bonding and closeness that his peers enjoyed. There was a study that showed life is way better for kids if they don’t have a phone, but only if their peers also don’t have phones

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          9 months ago

          This fact alone makes me conflicted about this. I don’t want my kids to walk around having phones from an early age, but I know first hand that being excluded as a kid is not a enjoyable experience. And kids are vicious creatures to each other too.

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        9 months ago

        All I never had was a Gameboy I didn’t get an actual phone until I was in high school.

        It had polyphonic ringtones and an IR blaster, it was the business.

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      9 months ago

      Not just pressure to get a fancy phone but that most of the socializing happens on social media now. Even if they sit in the same class, it’s a snapchat message.

      If they don’t have access to it, they’re social outcasts by default.

      It’s fucking crazy…