Edit: Thanks all for the responses, guess it’s more about what’s important between the 2 of you. After around a decade, things are starting to feel a bit repetitive I guess so I was trying to see if I could gain some fresh ideas.

  • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    I’m alright just hanging out in his or her house. Going places is nice, but you shouldn’t go somewhere to have a nice time just because it’s a status symbol to consider that date-like. A lot of people treat outings to venues and attractions like you’re recharging the batteries on your relationship, and to me that comes off as a red flag because then the dynamic isn’t flowing and is more like something that consciously must be maintained.